Today I received a trader's-heart breaking email from a good friend. He just went live after weeks of making sure he was ready on a demo account. He has a bright future ahead as a trader. But today, he got emotional and lost 3% of his account. If you've ever been in the same position, it can be a devastating feeling. My friend wondered if he was just going to have to "hang it up" and do something else. I know that feeling very well -- and remember asking myself the same question. This is the email that I wrote back.
1. Get over it. You are going to have mistakes like this along the way.
2. So what? One trade does not a good or bad trader make. You are not your trades. You direct them, and every once in a while, no matter what, you are a putz. This does not mean you are a putz all the time. You probably made a mistake at work in year 5 of your job, but that did not put in question your ability to work at all.
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